If You Give Up Today, Yesterday’s Efforts Will Not Be Worth It

It is not bad to give up in order to start over with more strength. Problems arise when you give up because you can’t find the motivation to keep going.

If you give up you have no chance. If you tell yourself that you can’t anymore and allow your breath to turn into lost tears, your efforts from yesterday will no longer be of any use to you, the fallen walls, the goals achieved in silence.

You carry battles on your back that only you know yourself. You did everything for your family, your children,  you fought every day for your dream,  which you wanted to achieve, which not everyone understood.

Why do you want to give up now? The reason that you bring yourself to your knees and give a defenseless sigh is usually due to the lack of support, disappointment and emotional exhaustion.

Perhaps many see you as a lioness who can handle anything and never gives up. But this lioness sometimes turns into a tired cat who just wants to make herself comfortable in a corner and sleep.

Once this has happened to you ,  you should try to regain your courage and find motivation. You must never give up and never let your despondency guide you.

We invite you to reflect on this topic with us today.

If you give up, nothing changes

The word “give up” is very negative and is often associated with cowardice. But it shouldn’t be viewed that way.

Giving up every now and then is completely normal and it doesn’t take much effort to overcome this situation. Sometimes you give up because there is no other choice and nothing more can be done.

“I’m giving up, I know that this person doesn’t love me and I won’t waste any more time with him.” “I’m giving up because it’s obvious that I’m not made for this job. Now I will prove my skills in another call field. “

• Giving up is acceptable  when you embrace a reality to improve your life,  when you become aware of a situation that is not good for you.
• If you give up because your heart is broken, your mind is fragmented, and you have no strength or hope to face a given circumstance, then just the opposite is true.

If you give up because you feel incapable of continuing your personal struggle, you should be aware that nothing will change.

• You will  stop in exactly the same place. You can’t move forward, feel  well, or achieve goals that mean so much to you.

If you do ever give up, think about the consequences of giving up and leaving your goals.

Surrender momentarily to prepare for battle

Let’s assume that you have given up, that you feel overwhelmed at work, and that you tell yourself that you “will never make a climb”.

• You give up on your child, you think that they will never make it through the school year because they are unable to focus, be more responsible and use the study time.
• Surrendering momentarily sometimes allows you to see the problem from a different perspective, calm down, and see everything under less pressure.
• If you give up, you will achieve inner peace, in which you suddenly and almost unconsciously find  new strength. You have new ideas, better strategies, new illusions and motivation.

It is worthwhile to realize that achieving a goal must take the greatest effort from yourself. Therefore, factors such as pressure or fear are real enemies on this path.

Keep calm and you will see the lioness move forward again. 

The definitive victory is achieved through daily triumphs

The winner is a dreamer who never gives up. So if you want to achieve a goal, you have to be able to dream it up. Introducing yourself, forging plans, finding strategies and especially nurturing the dream with motivation.

• In addition, you should note  that the ultimate triumph consists of many small, daily successes.
• Sometimes we don’t see these because we are focused on a bigger, longer-term goal. Without observing the daily changes that we achieve.

In order not to give up, one needs a positive attitude, confidence, good self-esteem and especially the ability to see that the personal struggle makes sense and has a goal that is all worth time and emotions.

When you find yourself in a personal struggle, remember that people around you can often be of wonderful help. Sometimes, however, represent a stone in the way that takes away your desire and motivation.

Dedicate yourself to those who deserve a place in your heart  and follow your instinct, your inner voice!